Pamela Anderson Says She Was Raped By Her Babysitter for Years in Netflix Documentary

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In her new memoir titled ‘Love, Pamela’ the Baywatch actress Pamela Anderson reveals so much that many never knew. The model for Playboy even dropped major bombshells in her documentary ‘Pamela, A Love Story’ premiering on Netflix that left many stunned.

Pamela Anderson, known for her infamous marriage with Mötley Crüe drummer Tommy Lee, let viewers in on how much she has gone through in her life. From her constrained family dynamics to even finding a crack pipe under the Christmas tree, here are some of the biggest highlights.

A Crack Pipe Under the Christmas Tree

Pamela Anderson reveals in both the memoir and documentary that former husband Rick Soloman allegedly left a crack pipe under their family tree one holiday season. The two met at a magic show in Las Vegas where at the time he was a professional poker player. The two eventually married but a few months later Pamela’s assistant found the crack pipe. In the Netflix documentary, Anderson says, “He still to this day denies it and says it was somebody else.” But, she adds, “Who else would have a crack pipe in the Christmas tree? It wasn’t me.”


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Solomon and Anderson got back together once he sobered up in the early 2010s. He later told the New York Post “I smoked crack for 25 f—ing years, but the crack pipe in the Christmas tree was 1,000% not mine.”

Tim Allen Flashed Pamela Anderson on Set

In what seems to be something that made headlines across the nation, Pamela writes in her memoir that Tim Allen flashed her on the first day on set for Home Improvement. Pamela had just booked the part time role of the Tool Time Girl. “He said it was only fair because he had seen me naked,” she writes. In a statement obtained by PEOPLE, Allen denied the claim. “No, it never happened,” he said. “I would never do such a thing.”

The actress stated to Variety, “Tim is a comedian, it’s his job to cross the line. I’m sure he had no bad intentions. Times have changed, though. I doubt anyone would try that post-#MeToo. It’s a new world.”


She Never Made Any Money Off of the Stolen Sex Take from IEG

When the actress met the acclaimed Tommy Lee of Mötley Crüe she claims that she rejected him so many times. Eventually on a shoot in Mexico, she invited the band to a nightclub where the two took ecstasy for the first time ever and madly fell in love. After four days of meeting, the two wed on the beach and capture every moment of the experience on video.

Throughout the relationship, the two stars said that they would record everything for their memories. In videos, Pam and Tommy can be seen with their children in their best and sometimes worst moments.

Canadian born actor Pamela Anderson and Greek born musicican Tommy Lee on the beach following their wedding, Cancun, Mexico, February 1995. (Photo by Getty Images)

After the videos were stolen and distributed by IEG on, Anderson and Lee fought the group in court. The two had claimed that even though these moments were in private, they should have never been distributed without their consent. Soon after they realized that a giant safe was stolen from their home, the couple got a call from Bob Guccione, the founder of Penthouse. He offered to buy their sex tapes from them, but they refused to sell.

Anderson in the end dropped the charges in court due to the health and safety of her baby. The star was pregnant throughout the trial and did not want to go through another miscarriage due to stress and overworking.

In the end, many people in the trial claimed Pamela Anderson had no right to privacy due to the exploitative nature of posing for playboy.

Her BabySitter Raped her for Three Years and She Wished Her Dead

In the Netflix Documentary, Pamela says that her babysitter as a child raped her for many years. The actress said the affair went on for quite a long time and that she wished her dead.


In a note written in a journal, Pamela reveals that she wishes the woman would die and stop causing them pain. In a twisted turn of events, the woman tragically died in a car accident the next day.

HOLLYWOOD, CALIFORNIA – JANUARY 30: (L-R) Brandon Thomas Lee, Pamela Anderson, and Dylan Jagger Lee attend the Premiere of Netflix’s “Pamela, a love story” at TUDUM Theater on January 30, 2023 in Hollywood, California. (Photo by Axelle/Bauer-Griffin/FilmMagic)

“I told her I wanted her to die, and she died in a car accident the next day,” says the former Playboy pinup in the doc. “I thought I’d killed her with my magical mind and I couldn’t tell anybody. “I was sure that I did it, that I’d wished her dead and she died,” continues Anderson. “I lived with that the whole of my young life.”

“She always told me not to tell my parents. I tried to protect my brother from her,” Anderson, who did not respond to a request for comment, adds.

I tried to kill her — tried to stab her in the heart with a candy cane pen.”

Pamela Was Raped By Her 25-Year-Old Neighbor at the Age of 12

In the Netflix documentary, the star reveals that she was raped when she went to her friend’s house next door.

“[Me and a friend] went to a friend’s condo, she went upstairs with the guy she had a crush on,” she says. “I started to play backgammon downstairs with his friend while I waited for her.”

“We played for a while until he said I looked like I needed a massage,” she recalls. “He was 25, I was 12. He raped me. I felt like it was my fault.”

Anderson kept the incident a secret for many years, but felt like everyone knew. She felt like it was writen across her forehead.

The Hulu ‘Pam and Tommy’ Show Was Never Approved by Her and She Will Never Watch It

“It really gives me nightmares,” Anderson says of the series. “I have no desire to watch it, I’m not going to watch it,” she continues. “Never watched the tape, I’m not going to watch this.”

Pamela Anderson and Tommy Lee (Photo by S. Granitz/WireImage)

Anderson states that she did not get any opportunity to be alerted about the production, nor did Tommy Lee.

“I texted Tommy and said ‘How do you feel about everything?’ and he said, ‘Pam, just don’t let it hurt you as much as it did the first time,’” she says. “Why would I want to go through that again?”

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